Reproduction. Everybody does it. There are a lot of delusional people on this earth who think that they are mentally capable of raising children. Most of them are wrong. This is an article from an experienced swimmer. Like many children, i was thrown into the deep end without anything to keep me afloat. And like many children who have unfit parents, I taught myself to swim.
If you have ever felt like you were adopted, if you have ever felt older than you`re parents, or if you wish that you were never born… you are not alone. They say that `blood is thicker than water', but what they don`t tell you is that blood is harder to swallow. We are all products of our environments and this is a statement to all parents, that you can ruin someone`s entire life if you are not careful.
All humans should have to complete a series of psychological tests before they are allowed to have children. Some of us were unplanned love children, some of us were `planned'.
But the truth is, the most common reasons for people having children are as follows: 1:They themselves had a bad childhood and are trying to proove to themselves that they can do a better job than their parents did. 2: Married people have children to proove their love to each other. 3: People often use a child to save their relationships .4: People have children young to try and proove to everyone that they are adults. 5: And because society says that getting married and having children is what life is all about.
The last one irritates me the most. Life is about learning who you are and reaching your full potential. If you happen to complete this mission then you have succeeded in taking the first step to becoming a parent. And if you happen to find real solid unmovable equally intelligent love in you`re quest to full potential, then you have the second step covered. Marriage is for wankers and thieves, and most marriages end in divorce. So save us kids some confusion and just be good parents.
The third step involves enjoying the company of children full stop. Some people have children and just get angry with them all the time..take a fucking minute and remember when you were a kid. If you think you are ready to have a child, you must be able to think like a child and an adult all at once.
Do not ever let out your anger on a child. Do not ever hit a child, and do not ever yell at a child. They will only think that that behaviour is acceptable.Talk to them, they can hear you and they understand every word.
Do not expose children to harmful environments.(if you do this, you are nothing but scum and filth) You need to teach them facts, not what YOU think is right and wrong. They must be educated on the wrongs of society, and the history of the land they live on. Don`t just send them to school, they cannot learn everything that they need to know from strangers. Every child needs help to find out who they are, just like you, and you must be prepared to help them to reach their full potential.
So to all you future parents…get you`re shit together.
And to all the parents who were`t prepared.. we are only great in spite of you.
And to all the careless dicks out there..wear a fucking condom.
POLLY.
